PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT!
Brain Tracy, a personal development expert notes that the average person fears speaking publicly more than they fear dying. It is relevant to establish oneself whether as the go-to industry expert through high-value video marketing or presenting ideas as a keynote speaker at events, public speaking is the most valuable strategy for quickly building a brand and client list.
Here are some tactics to help one become a highly effective public speaker.
- Master your public speaking anxiety: Generally speaking, having a steady flow of positive enthusiasm can go a long way. However, it would help if you managed your stress to control all negative emotions into positive energy. Stress in public speaking is inevitable and must be replaced with relaxation, which can be learned quickly.
- Follow your bliss: The most high-powered strategy for connecting with audiences during public speaking is by sharing stories and insights that are passionate. This strategy genuinely inspires you and the audience which creates a positive atmosphere for everyone.
- Gift of real value: Every public speaker must aim at creating real value as this will benefit their audience. It starts by giving away the most high-value tips, insights, and free strategies in speaking publicly. As a speaker, if you speak as though you are presenting your highest value tips and strategies to a room full of your highest paying clients and customers, that’s what they´re likely to become as a result.
- Practice with people you are comfortable with: If one is not a good public speaker yet, they should not inundate themselves through trial in front of a huge audience. One can start off by practicing with a small group of people with who you feel genuinely comfortable. Sometimes it is advisable to practice with solid experienced public speakers. Also, learning with positive emotional support can boost one’s speaking skills.
- Never start with an apology: One of the biggest and most common public speaking mistakes people make is to begin their presentation by apologizing for a self-perceived weakness. Typically, people think that admitting their nervousness is a good way of connecting with their audience through honesty. Unfortunately, this creates failure from the get-go. It is okay to feel nervous in those first few seconds of a presentation since there is nothing like learning with a positive mindset and emotional support from loved ones.
- Do not use Filler words: Steven D. Cohen, a public speaking expert notes that powerful public speakers work hard to eliminate words such as ´´um, ´´ ´´you know,´´ ´´uh,´´ ´´er,´´ and ´´like´´ from their vocabulary. So that their listeners can focus on their message. If a person assumes it is normal to use these words, they are mistaken. When a person can identify the use of filler words while speaking, it makes their presentation look and sound great.
- Good Posture is Critical: To become a top and admirable public speaker, one needs to maintain excellent posture while speaking. However, non-rigid posture conveys power, expertise and exudes a natural aura of self-esteem and well-being. İt goes a long way to achieve an excellent presentation.
- Make Eye Contact: Making eye contact with your audience is critical to public speaking success in diverse ways. It keeps the speaker focused on the presentation’s key points. Secondly, eye contact keeps the audience focused as well. It builds a natural conversation flow between every speaker and their audience to reinforce your social exchange because it’s a natural trigger or cue for active listening. It takes 3 seconds to focus on a critical audience throughout one-on-one conversations.
CONCLUSION
Public Speaking is one of the critical skills to master if one wants to succeed as an entrepreneur, trainer or educator, due to opportunities that will arise to address employees, social workers, and investors.
In our current technological era, well-spoken communicators can evoke an aura of leadership and expertise. It can motivate and inspire. However, public speaking skills have not improved overnight. Like anything, it takes training, practice, learning, and adapting to become efficient and effective. So, it is better to seek out public speaking opportunities standing trial. As an educator, trainer, entrepreneur, and adult, speaking in front of people is inevitable. Implementing the tips can assist in overcoming every fear and focusing on what’s most important, building up one’s brand and business.
Meanwhile, do not aim for perfection. Audiences relate to imperfection as it makes the speaker more relatable. It is always good to remember that the mere act of conquering your fear of public speaking is a huge victory, so it is always to be yourself, embrace fear, become more resilient, and go out and make things happen.
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Further Reading : (theories, internet links with materials, books, etc)
- 11 Ways To Improve Your Vocal Tone (thecmethod.com)
- Improve Your Vocal Tone Today – Bing video
- https://qahtanispeaks.com/
- https://www.drwaynedyer.com
- https://www.stevendcohen.net/
- How to Engage an Audience in a Presentation – YouTube
- Effective communication- How to convey a message effectively. Infographic (flipwit.com)
- https://www.fastcompany.com/3029074/5-tips-for-powerful-audience-participation
- How To Work On Projecting Your Voice The Right Way As An Actor – Practical Instructions – 2 Be An Actor
- 5 easy voice projection tricks for public speaking to try now (thecoachinginstitute.com.au)